Stuff about me:
The nutshell: I blog fairly consistently, and some of these have to do with the craft/business/headache of writing and publishing. You’ll also find some of my rough draft stories, most of which are lesbian themed, but not all. I will try to update these as regularly as possible, although these days most of my writing efforts go into stories I try to publish. I also blog my thoughts, ponderings, issues, and (hopefully) growth.
The geeky stuff: I got my MA in English Composition and Literature from California State University, San Bernardino in July, 2007. I also completed a Women’s Studies Certificate to complement my English degree. A BA in English from California State University, Los Angeles, and a Teaching English as a Foreign Language Certificate (TEFL) from ITTT round out the degrees of which serve no real purpose in my world at the moment. My areas of interest are the classics, especially Ovid and Homer. I love women’s literature, and am particularly fond of Lesbian fiction in its current state of metamorphosis. I’m currently working on my doctoral dissertation on Medea and the contemporary use of mythological women in literature.
The random stuff: Right now Occasionally I used to write for Suite 101.com. These days, I’m editing with Bold Strokes Books as an editorial consultant and attempting to get my own creativity to come out of its coma. My first lesbian publication came out in Regal Crest’s Blue Collar Lesbian Erotica, 2008. Since then, I’ve had several other publications come out, and hope they will continue to do so. Check out my publications page for the book covers.
- I love Latin music, Country music, Pop music and any reason, really, to dance.
- I am desperately addicted to coffee, and I don’t care.
- I have a thing about wearing socks without shoes and wear gym socks with nearly everything (including dresses, if I can get away with it. And lingerie).
- I am cluttered but obsessive about it.
- I love travelling, although I’m unlikely to eat much of another culture’s food, as I am always convinced it may kill me or inexplicably come alive in my mouth.
- I’m a pseudo vegetarian.
- I lived in the states for most of my life, but live in England with my English partner now.
- I love reading, writing, ingesting, erotica. Especially of the butch-femme variety.
- I make up words. All the time. You would totally hate playing Scrabble with me.
- I’m allergic to pineapple.
- I have nearly fallen to my death off a cliff, I have been in a car hit by lightening, and I randomly fall over in public on a regular basis for no apparent reason.
I identify as a femme lesbian, within a butch-femme dynamic. I love reading blogs about butch-femme dynamics and identities, and you’ll occasionally find me writing one as well.
I enjoy hiking through the amazing English countryside, visiting castles, ruins, abbeys and stone circles. My imagination can run wild here, and often does so of its own volition, in both delicate and dirty directions. Mostly dirty, really.
Please contact me if you have any feedback or questions. I would love to hear from you.

Hi
could you possibly mention this video – its heart rending to watch but has a really important message http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pR9gyloyOjM&feature=player_embedded – it links with one of your earlier posts but I wasnt sure you would want it mentioned there.
thanks
I’ve been really enjoying your blog, thanks for all the wonderful writing! Also its always cool to find someone else who blogs for the UK, I’m based just north of Durham and there’s not many queer ladies around. I hope you keep writing because your blog is lovely and very inspiring ^^
Its a while since I first started reading your blog and I just wanted to say that one of the lovely things about your blog is the fact that you give us all an individual response to our comments – the blog is great but the conversation and the fact we know you will respond to what we say makes reading it all the more lovely. So thank you for taking the time to give us your comments on our comments.
Thank you Anne, that’s really nice to know. I really think of blogging as a conversation, not just me wanting to hear my voice, so to speak. I really do like hearing what other people think.
thanks for reading and commenting. It means a lot.
Hello! Thanks for liking and following me. I have had a chance to read a few of your shorts and look forward to reading them all. Hope you are having a great day.
Ciao, Mrs. McGee
http://www.femmeanddandy.wordpress.com
My pleasure. I’m looking forward to reading more of your blogs! I love finding new reads.
HI Victoria, First off thank you for “Liking” my post “A Dyke Shopping Trip.”. Now that’s out of the way I love your blog. I just plowed through half of you publishing guides and, wow, just wow. So much makes more sense now. Finally I would like to ask your permission to add your blog to my blogroll. If you’d rather I didn’t that’s fine but I think some of my friends whould discover your blog.
Hi Amanda! Thanks for coming by. I’ve gone through a lot of your blog. I love your writing! And by all mean, please add me to your blog roll. I’ll do the same.
Thanks for replying so quickly. You’re on my blogroll.
Hello Victoria. Very interesting to find your blog. The world of writing and publishing is nothing I know about, although I love blogging and reading being a professional writer is not something I’d ever dream/be able to do.
It’s good to see you’ve moved from the states to England – have you been here long?
Anyway, I find your blog very interesting! Will be subscribing and will be back soon x
Hi Holly–welcome to my blog! I’m always happy to have new readers.
I’ve been in the UK for four years, and I love it. Where are you based?
See you soon!
I’m in Manchester. I grew up in North Wales, but after uni in Newcastle, I moved to Manchester a couple of years ago with my GF. I’m glad you love it here! How about yourself?
My partner is from Manchester, and we go up there quite often. Great city.
I’m from California, and we moved here four years ago for visa reasons. I love the UK and being able to travel to the EU in a heartbeat.
Hello Victoria
Ive just found your blog – and it’s fabulous to have found a blog written by a lesbian in England – I’ve been searching for ages…. we live in sunny (not so very…) Devon, not exactly a mecca for lesbians so we tend to stand out a bit, especially me as a soft butch that dresses as such.
Love the blog and will be trying to get to the waterstones event in Nottingham – love the idea of Robin Hood being on a Rainbow flag again…. possibly.
I hope your hospital visits were successful and bearable – having spent many hours in English hospitals they arent the greatest places on earth but the staff are generally very helpful, even if it does cost a fortune to park your car when you get there…
keep on writing – it’s important
Hello Anne,
Welcome to the musings! Glad you’re here.
Would LOVE to meet another blogger at the UK reading! If you need any info on places to stay or whatever, give me a shout!
Compared to American health care, English hospitals/care are heaven.
I look forward to reading more from you!
Victoria
Hello Victoria
Re waterstones event – which city centre hotels would you recommend? Would you say it was well worth attending both sessions (Sat and Sun)? Stupid question – of course it is – will be talking to the wife this weekend about the trip….(wish me luck). I keep trying to write things and then get sidetracked. My job isnt that creative and its hard to switch modes from business to creative (more excuses really…). I was hoping this event may kickstart the old creative juices and make me finally finish all the various bits and peices that I have started over the years.
Thanks for replying and have a lovely weekend (even if it is a bit damp!)
Anne
Hi Anne,
There are tons of city centre hotels, and one lesbian one on the outskirts of the city, not far from the tram that goes directly into the city. There’s an Ibis city centre, right next to a tesco and literally around the corner from the Waterstones. I’ll go ahead and post a bunch of hotel options on the page for the event (thanks for making me think of it!)
If you want to be a writer, then I would certainly suggest coming to the Sunday panel as well as the Saturday stuff. We’re really going to discuss writing and publishing on Sunday. And of course, on Saturday we’ll have the authors reading and answering questions as well.
I hope you can make it!
Victoria
Hey – I just came across your blog after you commented on another. Planned to stick it in to my reader and come and have a proper look later as I’m at work at the moment, but somehow seem to still be here 30 minutes later. Excited to have found you!
I plan to send three chapters of my attempt at a novel off in the next month or so (once i’ve re-written them a couple of times.) I know, you probably hear this every day.
I have two questions:
How long does it take you to write a novel? (I mean you, not just authors in general!)
How many words would you say you spout out a day, whether they make it or get binned?
OK … I just thought of one more. When you were writing your first, were you working full time? How was that?
Hi Melanie! So glad you’ve come over.
Let’s see–if I’m really on a role, I can crank out three thousand words in a day. But there are some days when writing a hundred is a chore. It takes me about six months to write a full novel, first draft. (I’m a professional editor as well, so I stay pretty busy). It takes about two weeks to do a first revision, and then it goes to my editor, and we’ll generally do another two-three passes before it’s finalized.
Working and writing is tough, but the vast majority of writers do it, since it’s virtually impossible to make a career out of writing unless you hit Harry Potter gold.
Now I have a question for you: why are you sending off three chapters of your novel, rather than the whole thing when it’s finished?
Glad to have you around!
Victoria
Thank you! I always wondered how many words a professional writer would write a day – so that I could figure out if it’s something I could do while working full time! I’ve been toying with the idea of having a go for a few years, but realised that I would never succeed, while doing nothing more than toying…
Hm, the first three chapters because … well, I don’t have a finished novel. I always thought that having a finished novel would be a prerequisite for having your work looked at by professionals (hence my years of procrastination) until I stumbled upon by one of my favoutite authors. What do you think?
ah … i tried to do a html link, but i’m useless at code – this is the page I stumbled upon … http://www.lisa-jewell.co.uk/advice.html
Ah, I see.
What she is suggesting is sending in the first three chapters of a completed manuscript. Because when you send it in, you send it in with a synopsis, which must include the ending. If you havent written the ending, then you cant include it.
My suggestions: First and foremost–finish the novel. Right to the last sentence. Then, once you’re done, find a few Beta readers. These are people who are not friends–they are people who read your manuscript and give you feedback, honest, intelligent feedback, to point out any gaps or flaws that you can fix before you send it to a publisher. A friend will worry about hurting your feelings, but a good Beta reader will give you feedback that makes your work stronger.
A publisher wants to know you have what it takes to write a novel, and you prove that by submitting a full manuscript. Some publishers want the first three chapters, some want the full manuscript, some want a synopsis and nothing more. (Bold Strokes requires full manuscripts). A publisher may want your first book, but they’re taking you on because they believe you have more than one book in you, and your manuscript is what makes them believe that. Their submission guidelines, almost always on their website, will tell you exactly what they want submitted.
I think your link has some really great suggestions!
Write on.
Hm, actually yes, yesterday after I posted here I did a little more research and realised I have a whole lot more work to do before I can even think about printing and posting! I’ll get there! I practically have the book written, I just have to re-write the entire thing now, because it was written a long while ago and is in a bad state.
Thanks so much for your advice though
there’s no question–writing is not for the faint of heart.
If I’m not mistaken, you’re in Manchester, right? Next month, in Nottingham, we’re having an author panel, where lots of lesbian authors are reading and signing their books, and then on Sunday we’ll be doing a publishing panel, where we talk about the process, what it takes, and answer questions. Sounds like it might be right up your alley! I’ve got a page with the info, but let me know if you want more info.
And I’m always happy to answer questions.
Hi! I just stumbled onto your blog, and it is terrific! I recently started a blog of my own about being a female-identified butch in a gender normative world. It’s at butchwonders.weebly.com. I’ll definitely add you to my blogroll–feel free to add me to yours as well! – BW
Welcome, BW! Glad to have you onboard, and I’ll certainly go and check out your blog as well.
Happy reading!
Love the website and love your writings even more!! You’ve come a long way kiddo…I’m so proud of you! Please keep in touch from time to time…
love ya,
D
Thanks…you never replied to my email…so I guess you’ll just need to come across the pond to see us…
Hi, I don’t know if you will remember me but I spoke to you and your partner at the Bold Strokes Meet and Greet in Provincetown (I am sure you spoke to many people!) Thank you for taking the time to chat with me. You mentioned the event you had organised at Waterstones and I just wanted to contact you to say I would love to hear from you if you have another one at any time. I live near York so its only about a 2 hr drive to Nottingham. It was great meeting with both of you.
Lyndia! Of course I remember another English traveller! Sam and I spoke about how wonderfully brave it was of you to do that kind of trip. We enjoyed meeting you as well.
I will absolutley keep you informed of any events going on in our area. I’m hoping to meet with Waterstones soon to come up with some prospective dates.
In the meantime, if you’re ever in our area and want to get together, give us a shout!
Glad you’ve come by the musings.
vic
Hi Lyndia,
I dont know if you’ll get a notice about this message, but I wanted to make sure you know about the BSB event in July. It would be great to see you there!